Finding Love on Valentine’s Day

By Dr. David Rex Orgen – Best-Selling Author & Mental Health Expert

Valentine’s Day is often celebrated as a time of romance, affection, and grand gestures of love. But for many, it can also be a time of loneliness, reflection, and longing for true connection. In his insightful message, Dr. David Rex Orgen challenges individuals to redefine love beyond fleeting emotions and external validation, emphasizing the importance of finding love within, embracing self-worth, and nurturing meaningful relationships.

Love Starts Within

Before seeking love from others, one must first cultivate self-love and self-acceptance. Many people believe that love is something to be found outside of themselves—through a partner, attention, or external validation. However, Dr. Orgen teaches that genuine love begins with recognizing one’s intrinsic value and purpose.

When individuals love themselves—flaws and all—they set the foundation for healthier relationships. They no longer seek love out of emptiness but rather from a place of wholeness, confidence, and purpose. This shift leads to deeper, more fulfilling connections with others.

Beyond Romantic Love: Embracing Different Forms of Love

Valentine’s Day is not just about romantic relationships; it is a time to celebrate all forms of love—family, friendships, and community. Many people experience sadness during this time because they focus solely on what they lack instead of appreciating the love that already exists in their lives.

Dr. Orgen encourages individuals to show appreciation for the people who uplift them, support them, and bring joy into their lives. Love is found not just in a significant other but in acts of kindness, shared laughter, heartfelt conversations, and the bonds of true friendship.

Healing from Past Hurts

One of the greatest obstacles to finding love is unhealed wounds from the past. Whether it be heartbreak, betrayal, or disappointment, these experiences can create walls that prevent individuals from embracing new love.

Dr. Orgen emphasizes the importance of forgiveness—not just for others but for oneself. Letting go of past pain frees the heart to receive love again. Healing is a journey, but every step forward opens new possibilities for joy, trust, and deep connections.

Faith and Love: Trusting God’s Timing

For those longing for romantic love, Dr. Orgen offers this encouragement: God’s timing is always perfect. Love should never be rushed or forced. True love aligns with God’s plan, coming at the right time, with the right person, under the right circumstances.

Instead of settling out of fear or loneliness, he urges individuals to trust that God knows their desires and is preparing someone who will complement their purpose and destiny. Patience, faith, and self-growth are key in this journey.

A Call to Love and Be Loved

This Valentine’s Day, Dr. Orgen challenges everyone to shift their perspective on love. Instead of focusing on what is missing, embrace the love that already exists. Love yourself. Appreciate those around you. Heal from the past. Trust in divine timing.

True love is not just about a single day—it is a lifelong journey of growth, connection, and faith. When love is rooted in self-worth, purpose, and God’s plan, it becomes the most beautiful and fulfilling experience of all.