The Hidden Trauma of Ghanaian Boys

Boys in Ghana are taught early: “Be strong.” “Men don’t cry.” “Stop acting like a girl.”
But behind those words lies a dangerous silence. One that’s slowly killing our boys — emotionally, mentally, and in some cases, physically.

Why are our boys emotionally lost?

Because they are being raised in a system that rewards silence and punishes vulnerability. Many grow up without a present father or healthy male role model. Others are told to “man up” when they express pain. Instead of being heard, they are dismissed, misunderstood, or scolded.

This leads to a dangerous emotional buildup — and it shows.
Some explode in anger and violence.
Some escape into substance abuse or pornography.
Others live with depression disguised as ego.
And many simply shut down — unable to form meaningful relationships, unable to communicate what they feel, or even recognize their own emotional wounds.

We are raising boys who can fight, compete, and hustle, but who don’t know how to feel, reflect, or ask for help. As a result, many grow into men who struggle to be present fathers, compassionate partners, or healthy leaders.

This is not just a family issue. It’s a national crisis — affecting our schools, streets, churches, prisons, and workplaces.

But it doesn’t have to continue.

Dr. David Rex Orgen’s “Boys’ Lives Matter Too” initiative, under the work of InspireMind Global, is leading a powerful movement across Ghana and beyond — offering mentorship, healing spaces, and emotional education for boys from all backgrounds. His team is helping communities restore the emotional dignity of the boy-child, so they grow into men who lead with strength and emotional intelligence.

We must rewrite the script.

Let’s raise boys who can cry without shame, express without fear, and lead without harming others.

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Let’s raise whole boys, so we don’t have to heal broken men.

Written by Dr. David Rex Orgen, Best-Selling Author and International Mental Health Expert